This is a story that many of you have heard before....It was John's second grade Holiday Party in Mrs. Whitcomb's room. I was there volunteering. There were several stations set up around the room; holiday bingo, latke making, card decorating and the draedel game, just to name a few. I was in charge of holiday bingo. I could hear John and a few kids playing the draedal game. I heard kids laughing and then John saying, "I keep winning this game and I am not even Jewish!" He was a pro at the draedal game! John was always great about celebrating holidays and he always made sure that holidays were special for me, his mom. Missing you at Christmas and always, John, Love, Mom(Paula)
Walt and Paula, I like the look of John's website - I've always loved the picture of John on the swing with his infectious smile! Walt - thanks for speaking at St. Paul's Men's Breakfast on Saturday. God continue to bless you and your family. Pat and Gail
What a touching and inspiring website. Thank you for your continued passion and dedication to those families struggling with cancer. Patt and Mary Helen Hayes
What a touching and inspiring website. Thank you for your continued passion and dedication to those families struggling with cancer. Patt and Mary Helen Hayes
Walt and Paula, You do great things! God bless you and your family in the wonderful future that awaits you. Your friend in Jesus. AZ
Hi Paula, Walt, and Family! I read your story about John playing dreidel in Mrs. Whitcomb's class. It gave me a good laugh. Gabby has her for a teacher and, just last week, taught that game to her classmates. Unfortunately, I don't seem to have that non-Jewish skill with dreidels. My kids usually end up with all the Jelly Bellies. Have a Merry Christmas. Jim Keen
What an amazing website...the pictures of the walk-a-thon completely warmed my heart as John's spirit clearly lives on in all of us! Although I only knew John for a few months, I feel very fortunate to have met this little boy who captivated my heart and continues to inspire me everyday!! Maureen (one of John's PICU nurses)
Paula and Walt, We are all so blown away with all you are doing to help others. The fund raising, the meals, the awareness raising, what a gift you are giving soooo many with John's inspiration. Through you he is accomplishing so much more than any child here on earth. We wish you a happy and blessed Christmas, and hope that in the New Year we can be more like you. God Bless, Dave and Heidi
Walt, Paula, Walter and Henry, The Finches wish you a VERY Merry Christmas and want you to know you are dear friends to us! All of you have honored John and the fullness of his life in the way you have lived since his death. I know he can only be happy about that and so thankful that he was with you during his eight short years. With all our love, and remembering, John gets to celebrate Christmas with THE King, Jesus Christ! - The Finches
This sight is fabulous and a wonderful tribute to John. You are amazing people who have touched so many lives despite your own grief. On behalf of many, thank you!!! Donna Child LIfe
Christmas Day John is in our thoughts today. We miss him very much. Love, Mom and Dad Nana and Papa
It is New Year's Day and hard to believe that we are entering a New Year without John. John loved to stay up with his brothers on NYE and watch the ball drop in New York City. He loved the parties that we had with neighbors------the fact that he was allowed to stay up "way past midnight" was a bonus! Here is another funny story about John: I had bought John and Walter dress coats from Jacobsons. They really only wore them to church. One night we were going to church on a Saturday evening. Prior to church we were going out for Chinese food. I told Walter and John to get their "church" coats. John and Walter looked at each other and John said, "Aren't we going out to eat?" and I said, "yes", and then he said, "You want us to wear those coats in PUBLIC??" I guess he didn't think that church was a "public" place! Both put the coats on and were very careful about running into anyone they new from school! Missing you on New Year's Day and always, Paula, Walt, Walter and Henry
hey hero, im trying to get my leadership class at school to do some thing at the run a thon. see u at the club nick campbell
Here is a Valentine memory. My friend, Anne Kreykes reminded me of this shortly after John died. Weeks before Valentines Day I would buy bags and bags of conversation hearts. My favorite are the yellow ones. Walter, John and Henry would always complain that our bags came without yellow ones, because I ate them all! John came home from his 2nd grade Valentines Party and had several valentines for me. Then he reached into his pocket and said, "Oh, I forgot, these are for you" and he handed me about 6 yellow candy hearts. He said, "I know they are your favorite." And eventhough they were sweaty and covered in pocket lint, I ate them! Love you John, Mom, who will always be your valentine
Dear Walt and Paula, It's been many years, Walt. I am an old roomate of yours from Valpo. I came across Alumnotes and was briefed on your recent family events. Though it comes late, I am very sorry about John's death. However, it is inspiring to see you and Paula convert that experience into a positive force. I am doing well. I am currently on sabbatical, living on the south side of Chicago, and promoting my new book, PLAYGROUND (PublishAmerica of Baltimore, 2003). I have been a Catholic priest for 10 years after working as a reporter and a photographer. Maybe you can guess who this is? But anyway, Walt - you, Paula and the rest of your family have my best wishes for a blessed life. By the way, I was in Port Huron in the summer of 2001, vacationing after a week in Fort Myers Beach, FL. Very nice town! Do you remember me now? Another clue: I never could get an ex girlfriend of yours to go out with me. God Bless You! +Dave Straub, Valpo '85
I forgot, Walt, if you want to respond - here is my e-mail: straubwriter@aol.com. Take care!
The day John was born was very different from today's sunny skies. We had a huge snow storm and it took almost an hour to get to St. Joes. John was born with a full head of black, black hair. He looked like an eskimo! I remember taking him to the dr. for his one week check up on St. Pat's Day. I had him dressed in little green pants and a white turtleneck---with his pale skin and dark hair he looked like the "little gaelic baby". "Happy Birthday, dear John, Happy Birthday to you...." Love, mom
PAULA AND WALT EVERYTIME WE BRING UP YOUR SITE, WE RECALL THE FABULOUS MEMORIES OF OUR LIFE AND FAMILY IN ANN ARBOR. IT BRINGS A TEAR TO THE EYE. YOUR WORK INSPIRES US AND HELPS KEEPS LIFE IN CHECK. THANKS FOR THE REMINDER OF WHAT IS REALLY IMPORTANT IN LIFE. GREGG AND JAYNE MALPEDE
Paula this site is lovely, so full of Johns energy, I came here having read your mums essays on John, they are so beautifully written, I really get the sense that I have been prividged to know him, although we have never met. I am crying because of the sadness of it and also because John reminds me of Tom. he would never smile on demand, only if he was moved to, which was often, He 'got on with it' too, it has been so precious to read such an honest and clear account of your brave boys life. Thank you for sharing it with me, it has inspired me to have a go at doing a web site, myself. Sending you love Ali
Dear Walt and Paula and family, We tried to get there and we made it! alayna had a great time doing her 15 laps; better late than never. The runathon is a great way to support the cause and you guys have done a great job as always. I hope I can get more involved next year, but please let me know if I can do anything in the near future. Sincerely, Patti Striho Trombley
I am going to your grave today, with flowers orange, yellow, red. I'll throw away the faded ones and leave fresh ones instead. I'll stand above the place you lay, placed there awhile ago. And once again my heart will brake, and unchecked tears will flow. With gentle fingers I'll caress, your name carved in the stone. Then brush away the fallen leaves, October winds have blown. I'll dry my eyes and say a prayer, and as I raise my head. Another grieving mother has just tucked her child in bed. Author Unknown
We are given many precious gifts as we go through life. Some we are allowed to enjoy for a long time...others only briefly. But each gift has the power to change and enrich us, to make us better human beings. With love always John, Mom, Dad, Walter and Henry
Many of you probably don't know this but John is the reason that Tom and I had our first date. I saw Tom and John playing together at John's grandparents house. I thought to myself, He's kind, comes from a decent and moral family and he's good with kids. It was then that I decided to ask Tom for a first date. Tomorrow Tom and I will have been married 7 years! Thanks John! Aunt Laura
I am sorry it took me so long to get on this site. It is full of amazing stories and love. I just wanted to thank you for letting me be with your family and hear you story while I had the honor of taking care of Walt. I wish you good health and spirits this holiday and always! Kelly RN (UofM ER)
"Tis Christmas in heaven what a beautiful sight! I want you to know that everything is alright. The crib is adorned with brillance of the star; Wiseman have come from near and far. I've met all our dear ones who preceded us here; The reunion was lovely, an event full of cheer. And tonight we'll all gather in reverence we'll kneel, for the babe in the cradle, up in heaven is real! And I pray that your Christmas is as blessed as mine. Please shed no more tears for my soul is at rest, Just love one another and live life to it's best. Yes, it's Christmas in heaven, so I've heard them say. Yet, Christmas in heaven happens everyday!
Hi Paula, I am just looking at the pictures of John and Walt, trying to hold back the tears. I want to let you know that both John and Walt will live forever in my heart and if possible through the foundation and this website. If you will allow, I would like to make this site a living memorial to both of these wonderful human beings. Plus this will allow me to grieve at the loss of someone who was like a brother to me and a very special friend. I will see you Friday, and please let me know if there is anything I can do to help you during this very difficult time. All my Love Bob Plant
To the family of Walt, So very sorry to hear of your loss. I got to know Walt since RN and CTS merged. He was a kind man, a funny guy,a witty collegue, with lots of charisma. I hope you can find solice in what a fine husband, father, son, and brother he was to you all. I will keep you in my prayers and wish you all the very best. I reget that I am out of town and unable to attend his funeral. I just wanted to convey my simpathy. Sincerely, Ann Marie Nadolski (CTS/Bloomfield)
Paula, I came upon the site when I was looking to send a memorial for Walt. I have went through the entire website, it is wonderful. How great to celebrate the life of your wonderful son in such honor. I feel for you in the loss of your son and now your husband. My prayers are with you and will continue to be. I wish I could take the pain away from you and your boys, it has to be unbearable. Please know that many people care. I personally do not know you however I feel very close to you. You are a wonderful woman and mom.
i just read about walt's passing. i am so sorry to hear about it. when i first heard about john, i was saddened as well. my oldest son and i were priviledged to meet, and get to know for only a short period of about a year, paula and her youngest, henry, at a lamaze playgroup back in the 90's. just wanted to send my condolences to the family. i am so very sorry for your losses. respectfully, tracy and nick holmes tracyamholmes@yahoo.com
Dear Crosby Family, I just learned of the passing of your dear husband, father and son. Although we have never met, I have heard your story on many occasions over the last few years from your friend and mine, Mary Beth Copp. It was with great sadness that I read of Walt's passing. I cannot imagine the pain you must be going through but I wanted you to know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of friends and strangers. I wish you peace during this most difficult time. Sincerely, Karen Silverman
Yesterday, in my home in Florida, I heard of the passing of John's father, Walter,Jr. Through reading his obituary in the Times Herald, I discovered this web site in beautiful tribute and memory of John. Words seem so trite and useless. The loss to all of you in the Crosby family and the trials you faced along the way, staggers the mind. I have lived beside Walt and Betty in Port Huron, since Wally was a baby. I watched all their boys grow up and at the street picnics, I got to know young John. I remember him well, even though I did not see him often, I was well aware of what you were all going through with him. Then to hear of his Daddy's problem and again you were all going down the exact same path again. Walt and Betty, I wish I were up there to put my arms around you and all your family. As you know we have both now lost a grandchild and a child. I know the hurt you feel, and I share it with you. I will certainly contribute to the Crosby Foundation and you will hear from me when I figure out how to do it. Perhaps just send the check to you. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Perhaps you will not get to read this for some time, but my thoughts are there with you through this most difficult time. With my love, Dorothy Lou Keith
From Mark Worden (Port Huron Northern Class of 1988) I am a friend of Jennifer and Robert from High school. Although I knew Walt mostly in passing my love for the Crosby family makes me feel as if I have lost a family member as well. God bless you all. My family will be parying for you and your family.
Our hearts are full of sorrow for your family. We have you in our prayers. We met you and Walt at the P.H.G.C.Invitational two years ago. My husband, Dick, and son, Scott, played with Walt and Walt SR and we sat with you for dinner. We learned then what you and Walt had been through and were impressed with your faith and what wonderful people you are. May God be with you. Sandy Worden
Paula, I have just learned about Walt. My thoughts are with you and your family. Please know that. Much love and admiration. Petrea Young-Witt
Paula, we are so sorry for your loss. Words can not express the sorrow we feel for you and the entire Crosby family. Jenny and Bob have been our good friends for years. We had the privilege to get to know you and Walt during past summers at the Crosby's. You have had to endure so much, we are truly sorry. God bless you. Doug and Cheryl Price
i found this by mistake..and it is so caring and im so sorry ....he must have been such a pleasure and i can only say im sorry ....and it still does not seem enough... yes life is frail i will take note..and live better and fuller because of this one little boy... sandijett@aol.com
John was a great friend, neighbor, and just an all around great person to be with. Missing you dearly, claire grobosky
Dear Crosby family, Thank you for the wonderful Thnksgiving dinner that you provided to all of us at 7 Mott. May God reward you and your efforts to make us happy. Love and blessings, Gisele Kuhn giselekuhn@hotmail.com
Love your site. I'm just opening up a 501c3 in memory of my beautiful 5 year old that passed away at Mott's Childrens Hospital due to an inoperable brain tumor. If you can ever use a volunteer for an event, I would love to help. Karen Leah's mommy forever www.leahsjourney.com
Nice site.
Thank you for providing Thanksgiving dinner Nov of 2005 and for Valentine's lunch today. Our 3 year old has leukemia and we've been here since Nov and will be here until about May. We appreciate your kindness and thinking of the families on Mott 7. We would like to become involved in this organization by donating time/money. The family of Amanda Withrow
Hi Paula, my name is Nichole Gilbert. I was given your site name by Wendy Huss. She just moved to Rockford Illinois from Ann Arbor and came across my son's story. She suggested I contact you, as my son, Carter, and I are coming to the University of Michigan for experimental treatment. My son, 2 1/2 was diagnosed with Neuroblastoma in June 2005. His chances of survival aren't good, but we remain faithful to our Lord for healing. Carter is going to be treated with "MIBG" treatment in late April. If you get a chance please contact me. I would love to get some area information and it would be nice to know somebody up there. Thank you. Nichole Gilbert. nikicartersmommy@yahoo.com or visit us at www.carepages.com >page name> CaringforCarter
Thank you for the Easter Brunch you provided to the families staying here at Mott 7th Floor. It was a wonderful brunch and just what I needed while staying here with my daughter. I pray that I will continue to remember the families that are staying in the hospital with their children. I can imagine that one you go home, this is a time that you might want to put behind you. It takes such great compassion to do what you do. You are truly a Blessing in our lives. Thank you so very much. The Withrow family CarePage: AmandaAnnWithrow
Thank you for the Easter Brunch you provided to the families staying here at Mott 7th Floor. It was a wonderful brunch and just what I needed while staying here with my daughter. I pray that I will continue to remember the families that are staying in the hospital with their children. I can imagine that one you go home, this is a time that you might want to put behind you. It takes such great compassion to do what you do. You are truly a Blessing in our lives. Thank you so very much. The Withrow family CarePage: AmandaAnnWithrow